We are pleased by simple gestures or expressions in many occasions in daily life.We may be even at the height of anger, irritation, restlessness and even be fretting and frowning ! Even under such turbulent situations a simple word like ‘sorry’ is often enough to act like a cannon of water from the hose of a fire fighter that can douse the flames of an inferno.Just an instance many of us might have come across is what I want to discuss in this blog
You are driving on a high way with your hands on the wheel and fingers tossing on it in rhythm to the tune of a melodious song in the stereo.You are perfectly on track and all of a sudden a vehicle zoomed past you on the wrong side and you were simply caught unawares and heard a small eery noise hardly noticeable and in the whip of a second, that vehicle was far ahead of you and the adrenaline started rushing in you and you were about to cry, shout and yell, honk the horn, all in a frenzied attempt to stop him.But imagine for a while that the vehicle stopped and the person got off it and started approaching you.You too turned off the engine, ready for a brawl and to teach him a lesson.The man came closer, laid his hands on the doors ,peeped in and said “ I am sorry sir, the fault is mine” ! I need not explain what could be your reaction . I am sure in at least 90% of cases, one would say, “its alright, your anger melting like a chunk of ice kept in the open at noon on the hottest day of the year !
So the magic word “ sorry” and admission of a mistake committed often solves so many tensions in our daily lives for us and for all those around.
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ReplyDeleteAs most of us are aware "Knowledge may fail sometimes in handling a situation but behaviour can handle such failures too". I have gone through a WhatsApp post regarding the legends Ratan TATA and Amitabh ji. Tata and Amitabh happened to travel with side by side seats. Tata havent recognised Amitabh which was seems very strange to him (Amitabh). He introduced himself to Tata with few of his movies. Similarly, Amitabh haven't recognised that he Tata. At the end of journey, Amitabh ji says nice traveling with you and asks his name to which Tata replied "I am Ratan TATA". It is the good behaviour of Amitabh which allowed to know about the greatest person on other side.
Surya Rajasekhar K